The Instant Attraction Trigger You Need to Learn

The easiest way to make women like you is by showing them your relationship potential. When it comes to attracting a girl, the first thing her brain is going to look for is your ability to be a good partner.
I’ll be blunt: unless you get past this barrier, she’ll never want to get naked with you.
I mean, most guys will want to sleep with a girl even if they never see each other again. That’s just how we are.
As for a woman, she’s looking for “boyfriend qualities” in a guy before he can get any further with her. One of these important traits is none other than the ability to keep her interested on a consistent basis.
And a lot of that comes from being able to keep the levity alive. In other words, you need to make a woman laugh.

This is one of the most powerful ways to make her want to get with you. Being humorous speaks of a confident personality, which is what any guy should aspire for.
Plus, a funny guy doesn’t take himself too seriously, which means he has an easy-going vibe that pulls women in.
If that wasn’t enough, consider the fact that humor and intelligence are closely linked. If you’re funny and engaging, she’ll put two and two together in your favor.
Besides, you’ve heard the worn-out phrase about laughter’s therapeutic effects, right? Well, it works in dating as well.
Pickup artists are good at taking women through an emotional ride using stories that evoke excitement and/or humor. They understand that the more a woman is amused, the easier it is to trigger all those feel-good hormones in her brain.
Ever wonder why people refer to the feeling of attraction as “chemistry”?
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Stop Being a Wuss and Get The Girl

Fact: Women dig strong men.
But it’s not always about bench pressing a couple hundred pounds or having a black belt in jiu-jitsu. Sometimes, it’s also about having a strong grip on your emotions and not cracking under pressure.
It’s that kind of inner strength that women crave. When you’ve got that rock-solid core of attitude, it doesn’t matter whether you’re a nerdy computer programmer or a scary drill sergeant.
What really counts in attracting women is being a grown-up in every sense of the word. In the back of most women’s minds, the hallmark of the ideal guy is someone who can take crap from her AND the world.
Here are a few ways you can be that man for her:
#1: Staying Frosty
That means keeping a cool head when things go wrong. Women are seriously turned off when a guy loses it just because the waiter gets their order wrong or it starts to rain when he had a picnic date planned out.
In a nutshell, being the emotionally mature man is about two basic things: having a backup plan when the crap hits the fan, and keeping your emotions in check.
You can’t expect to impress women if you don’t demonstrate basic leadership qualities that assure her you’re a stable partner.

Back when people still lived in the wilderness, surviving another day literally meant planning ahead for stuff like unpredictable weather changes and external threats such as wild animals and bandits.
And these evolutionary instincts still resonate with us to this day. What this means for you:
Learn to plan ahead for dates. Have a contingency plan and anticipate stuff that could go wrong so you don’t break a sweat when something comes up.
Read up on how to keep cool, such as books like “Anger Management for Dummies” (not to say you’re a rageaholic, but thinking clearly under emotional distress is a valuable skill any guy should learn).
#2: Turning The Tide
Nothing gets a woman hotter than a guy who not only stays cool in a crappy situation, but can also change his circumstances and come out on top.
Let’s say some drunk guy at a bar started getting in your face and calling you names. If you gave him what he wanted by reciprocating his douchebag attitude, then you’ve already lost.
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Decoding Female Behavior 101

Playing games: it’s always been a part of dating, and winning it means getting inside her head.
However, the one thing we have going against us is the male tendency to see things that aren’t always there, such as attraction. Figuring out whether she’s interested in you or not can be a tricky deal, but there are a few tricks to help you crack her cryptic ways.
She Doesn’t Want to Look Too Eager
Let’s face it – we’re guilty of this behavior too. Like us, women don’t want to give the impression that they have nothing going for them other than waiting for the next guy to come along.
She has a happening life, and by making herself unavailable from time to time (e.g. “I’ll be swamped with work this weekend”, “I’d love to, but my yoga class got moved to Tuesday…”), she’ll trigger your desire to chase her all the more.

It’s the “You want what you can’t have” principle in effect here. And it keeps her from looking needy.
If you want to know if she’s still in the game, ask her out a few times – but never on short notice.
Let her know a few days in advance that you want to take her out so she knows you’re not just treating her as a backup.
Be on the lookout if she’s giving you signs of hope. If she agrees in spite of her busy schedule, then things are going well.
But if she keeps making excuses even after you’ve planned ahead, then take it as a “no.”
Radio Silence
Maybe you sent her a funny SMS the other day and you haven’t heard from her at all. Now you’re wondering, “Did she drop off the face of the Earth?”
Relax. This could still be part of her anti-neediness plan, so play it by ear.
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How To Make Her Want You Without Trying

If you’re like most guys interested in attracting girls, you probably think that changing a woman’s thoughts about you is pretty much impossible.
For instance, pretty much all the attractive women are going to assume that any guy who approaches them are going to hit on them or act in a pathetic “I-like-you-please-like-me-back” kind of way.
So that means you’ve already got your work cut out for you and convince her you’re not THAT guy. How do you get her to think otherwise about you?
In the movie Inception, one of the goals of the main character was to plant an idea in the head of important people, like a CEO of a major corporation, to influence events to their advantage. He did this by literally hacking into that person’s mind to make him think or feel in a certain way.
In the real world of course, this isn’t possible – and even if it were, it would be creepy and unethical to convince someone this way.

However, you can still get a woman to set you apart from other guys by making subtle but powerful suggestions in her head.
You can’t convince her by walking up to her and saying, “Hey, I’m totally not like those other men who you’ve shot down before…I’m not going to tell you how hot you are or buy you a drink – I’m different.”
It doesn’t work like that. You can’t convince a girl you’re a high quality guy with your words; only your actions can do that.
To make her less defensive around you, you need to act like an attractive guy. And the first way to do that is by learning the basics of attractive body language.
What you are on the outside can help give her an idea of who you are on the inside. Do your homework on the subject and learn how to convey your attractive personality through the right gestures and motions.
Aside from that, the most powerful way you can change a woman’s reality is by avoiding all the supplicating, needy behavior that she’s seen from other men. You know, complimenting her on something obvious like her looks or going through the predictable chit-chat that she’s learned to tune out.
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